Over the past year, I've embarked on a transformative journey, dedicating myself to becoming a Laura Doyle certified relationship coach. This intensive training has not only equipped me with the skills and knowledge to empower and guide others but has also been a profound personal journey of growth and discovery.
My own experience with a Laura Doyle coach was life-changing. It opened my eyes to the possibilities within my relationships and taught me the invaluable skills of self-care, respect, and true partnership. Inspired by this, I felt a deep calling to share these empowering principles with others.
I am now looking forward to welcoming clients and supporting them through their own journeys of relationship transformation. My mission is to provide the same guidance, support, and empowerment that I was fortunate enough to receive, helping others to create more loving, fulfilling, and respectful relationships in their lives.
Embarking on this journey to become a Laura Doyle certified relationship coach, I discovered something powerful: the profound impact of the Six Intimacy Skills™ on transforming relationships. These aren't just techniques; they're pathways to deep, authentic connections, inspired by my own experiences and the transformations I've witnessed.
My approach is deeply personal because it's rooted in real-life transformation—mine and the many women I've had the privilege to coach. If your heart longs for a more fulfilling relationship, I'm here to tell you it's possible. It's a journey I've taken, and now, I'm here to guide you on yours.
You're not alone on this path. If you're ready to explore how the Six Intimacy Skills™ can revolutionise your relationship, reach out. Together, we'll embark on a transformative journey towards the love and connection you deserve.
My beautiful clients come from all walks of life and have a variety of relationship goals.
Read some of their success stories and see how I have helped them achieve their goals.
From Heartbreak to Healing and Empowerment
My journey with my husband began over three decades ago, not amidst the bright lights of the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but within the close-knit community of our theatre group. Our love story was one of shared passions: his for the piano and mine for singing. Together, we created a life filled with harmony, love, and two incredible children. After 32 years together and 25 years of marriage, our duet seemed unbreakable.
However, the script of our lives took an unexpected turn at Christmas 2022. My husband left our family home to live with another woman, unravelling the life and dreams we had built together. In the following year, I was forced to witness this woman stepping into the roles and moments that were once mine, even taking the holiday we had planned together. This betrayal cut deep, not just by my husband, but also by friends I thought I could count on. These friends, who had been part of our lives, appeared to welcome the other woman, leaving me isolated in my grief.
In February 2023, another profound change shook my world. Both of our adult children, my constant companions, and sources of joy, moved out to pursue their careers, leaving me alone in the family home that once echoed with laughter and love. The silence was deafening, the loneliness palpable. Friends who reached out to help were met with my numbness and pain. Heartbreak, I learned, was not just emotional but a visceral, physical agony.
It was during this dark and desolate period that I discovered Laura Doyle's podcasts. Her words were like a beacon in my storm, showing me that I wasn't alone and that transformation was within reach. Despite my limited resources, I joined the Ridiculously Happy Wife program, followed by the coach training program. This was the start of a profound metamorphosis.
The lessons were hard but necessary. I realised I had lost myself - "my Helen" - in the midst of life's demands. I had neglected my own needs, lost sight of my self-worth, and unknowingly pushed away those who cared for me. I had become someone I no longer recognised, consumed by control and devoid of joy. My health had deteriorated; I was overweight and depressed, a shadow of the vibrant woman I once was.
But with each step in Laura Doyle's program, I reclaimed a piece of myself. I found a supportive community of women who understood my journey and encouraged my growth. I learned the importance of self-care, of finding joy in my own company, and of being responsible for my own happiness. Today, I stand healthier, happier, and more confident. I am rebuilding my life, one day at a time, with a newfound sense of purpose.
Now, as a trainee certified Laura Doyle relationship coach, I am dedicated to guiding other women through their struggles. I want to help them see their own worth, embrace their inner strength, and find joy in themselves and their relationships. My journey from heartbreak to healing is a testament to the transformative power of self-discovery and community support.
I often felt frustrated and unappreciated in my marriage as well as being upset by my husband’s drinking. We had got through the hardest years and had lots to be thankful for, but we still lacked connection and I was holding on to a lot of anger. I was afraid it was starting to affect the children. I had tried to break the cycle for myself, but it did not fix my marriage. I felt I’d tried everything, but he wasn’t willing to change, so we were trapped in an unhappy marriage, both not willing to split our family up. Talking to Helen I felt immediately like I had found someone who really understands and the relief that came with that was palpable from the first session. Each week we focus on my wins, what I’d like to focus on this week. I can now recognise a direct relationship between my behaviour/response to triggers and how much self-care time I’ve had. I feel that I have started to relinquish control of my husband and I’m seeing results from focusing on the positives with my family and expressing gratitude. I am seeing some positive changes at home and feeling more at peace with my homelife. For the first time in a long time, I can imagine a happier future.
I would recommend private coaching 100%. Helen has tremendous empathy and understanding. She is also able to bring her many years of experience as a teacher to her coaching. She is exceptionally motivating and caring. I always left my sessions with Helen with a clear understanding of how I was going to use the skills effectively to cope with the challenge I raised during our session.
Private coaching helps me see my blind spots quickly and get back on course. It is also hugely supportive. There is absolutely no way I could have restored my marriage without private coaching. I needed that level of help and support.
If you want to give your marriage and your family the best chance, private coaching is indispensable. You will get the time, attention, expertise and support you need to transform yourself and save your marriage.
I wanted coaching as this is my second marriage. I was going through the everyday routines and getting lost in work. I knew I wanted to open up more to my husband as I didn’t want to go through and repeat the problems that were there in my first marriage. My sessions with Helen were great. I felt heard, safe, and nurtured. Her cute accent helped me to stay focused, too!Coaching with Helen benefited me by giving me someone to vent to and get all the frustration out on the table with, then sort through. It brought me a reminder that I could (and wanted to) show up as my best self.
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Confidently restore the intimacy and peace in your relationship by learning and practicing the proven Six Intimacy Skills™ in a supportive, small group setting.
This 4-week, live Zoom course includes the skills to empower you, ignite your feminine gifts and get you feeling happy, cherished and connected with your guy.
You'll meet with me once a week for about 2 hours to learn the skills and take home something new to try.
The course includes access to a private Facebook group and provides opportunities to share your progress and questions.
This is the most economical way to receive personal support in applying the intimacy skills!
Get extra support practicing The Six Intimacy Skills™ in a community of women committed to making their relationships vibrant and connected.
Opportunity to get coached and/or contribute to WEEKLY group coaching calls on zoom.
Be part of a supportive community
Strictly confidential, option to remain anonymous
Limited places available
I would love to acknowledge your commitment in seeking out Relationship Coaching.
With private coaching you'll be poised to have the breakthroughs you've been longing for with personalised coaching for your individual challenges.
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You'll receive in-person and written support to help you create the relationship of your dreams and become a well-rested, restored and adored wife!
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To explore if one on one coaching is the right fit for you, please message me to schedule your free Relationship Assessment Call.
"The Empowered Wife Podcast is all about fixing your relationship without your man’s conscious effort, even if it seems hopeless.
Guests share how they fixed their marriages to men with anger issues, narcissism, alcohol abuse, verbal abuse, midlife crisis, affairs, physical abuse and more using the Connection Framework and the 6 Intimacy Skills".
Please reach us at coach.helen@outlook.com if you cannot find an answer to your question.
Book your free Relationship Assessment call with me and once we know that coaching is the best next step for you, I will provide all the info you need to sign up.
Marriage counselling tends to focus on the problem, in other words what’s wrong with the relationship or with the people in it (childhood trauma) and things that have happened between you and your partner in the past.
Coaching is more about focusing on the solution and taking responsibility for your own part rather than blaming and complaining. Coaching empowers you with specific skills and simple actions that you can take to change up those old dysfunctional patterns. Because I have my own transformation using the Intimacy Skills, I will also share my own personal stories to inspire you with real-life examples of how you can use the skills in your situation.
Relationship coaching is not a sprint, it’s a marathon. Having coached women in long term relationships, I know it takes time to for marriages to get into trouble and it takes time for them to get back out of trouble. How long exactly? Nobody knows. Each relationship is different however 12 sessions offer you the best value for money as well as time to get to know the intimacy skills and form new empowering habits that will have you seeing positive and lasting results in your relationship.
I prefer to conduct coaching sessions on video and create a safe space for us both to share vulnerably. Seeing your face helps me to connect with you and really understand where you’re at, however if it isn’t possible at all, we can possibly schedule a phone call instead.
I hear you. You are not alone. So many women, including myself, have been in this exact position. The fact that you are seeking out support through coaching indicates your desire to restore intimacy in your relationship. I would love to honour your bravery and commitment. By booking on a FREE Relationship Assessment call, we will be able to explore what is possible for you.
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